“And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.” Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,‘Glory to God in the highest heaven,and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.’When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, ‘Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.’So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told.”-Luke 2:8-20 (NIV)
Memories and Memoirs of Father and Children in Adventures Never Forgotten
Monday, December 11, 2023
The Shepherds’ Christmas Story
Saturday, November 11, 2023
Fall Bound Vacations – Ark Encounters and Cincinnati Parks
Typically, Lisa and I take Jace and Annabelle to a football game in South Carolina on a short vacation over a long weekend in the fall. Over my fall break this season, we desired to take a family trip centered on time together, some fun activities outside, and going to museums. Like many sports enthusiasts, I enjoy attending a good Saturday college football game. However, on some weekends, I try to focus on events where I can spend more time with my family instead of watching sports. For instance, taking Jace (a 1-year-old) and Annabelle (a 3-year-old) to a college football game is not necessarily a wise choice. When each child was a baby, we could take them to any type of event, including sports and concerts. When Jace and Annabelle grew up into active walkers, their mobility became a whole new ballgame!
With these thoughts in mind, we ventured from our
hometown of Knoxville, Tennessee to Cincinnati, Ohio, during the first weekend
in October. I recently heard positive feedback from a friend about northern
Kentucky and the city of Cincinnati, including the Ark Encounter and the Creation
Museum. The Ohio River serves as the state line that separates these regional
areas in Ohio and Kentucky. So, we rented a house in Covington, Kentucky, a
town located just across the bridge from downtown Cincinnati. In past years,
Lisa and I usually took a short trip to celebrate our wedding anniversary in
October. While this trip was meant to serve mainly as a family vacation, we set
aside moments to commemorate and remember our marriage. Anniversaries remind us
to be grateful for one another in the adventures that we share together.
In northern Kentucky near Cincinnati, the towns of
Ludlow, Covington, and Newport have their own places of interest and tourist
sites. If we had only stayed on this side of the Ohio River (across the skyline
of Cincinnati), we would have been plenty busy with the hidden treasures that
northern Kentucky bestows upon its many visitors.
We
arrived in Covington from Knoxville at approximately 7:30 p.m. ET. After a long
day of traveling, at the recommendation of our Airbnb host, we ate at the Fort
Mitchell Public House. The building that Fort Mitchell Public House resides in possesses
a long local history. It was initially built in the early 1900s as a private
residence. In the 1940s, it was converted into a restaurant called The
Hearthstone. The Hearthstone was a popular spot for many years, but it
eventually closed in the 1980s.
The building sat vacant for approximately two decades until Mike Hang purchased it. To restore the building as an original public house from the early 1900s, he renovated the building and opened Fort Mitchell in November 2015. A large outdoor patio with comfortable seating surrounded a courtyard, especially for families with energetic children after a four-and-a-half-hour car ride. As an appetizer, we ordered the loaded Saratoga chips, a wholesome dish of handmade potato chips with made-from-scratch BBQ sauce, queso, tomatoes, and green onions. I honestly thought Annabelle would eat the chips with whole mouthfuls. Instead, she was captivated by the outdoor environment of streetlamps and other patrons in their best Sunday dress clothes. I ordered the fish tacos made with blackened whitefish, flour tortillas, corn salsa, lettuce, cheddar cheese, and sour cream. Lisa ordered the spicy black bean burger on a gluten-free bun with fries. The burgers were made daily by the head chef with black beans, corn, brown rice, chili, fresh corn salsa, and pickles. We ate food at some unique, established landmarks; however, Lisa and I agreed that this restaurant was our favorite place to eat during our five-day vacation.
After a quick trip to the grocery store, we finally reached our Airbnb rental house. The neighborhood where the historic home resided was quaint, with quiet streets and one-family homes surrounded by large oak trees. The home had three bedrooms, a spacious kitchen, and a large den for the kids to play with their toys. Jace is obsessed with dirt, hence why he is often filthy from playing outside these days. This house had several soiled plants with pots inside the house. So, I baby-proofed the house to keep Jace from playing in the dirt of each pot and throwing it across rooms like marbles. It can definitely make a huge mess when playing with the soil inside. For reasons unknown to young parents, the dream of a one-year-old boy is to make messes for Mom and Dad to constantly clean up.
On Saturday, we got an early start to visit the Ark
Encounter, the modern-day museum that displays Noah's ark in a life-size
replica of the boat. Before going inside the ship, the kids rode a carousel.
The landscape of the grounds surrounding the ark was amazing. It reminded me of
the picturesque blossoms and flowers at Disney World or Dollywood. While the ark
itself was the main attraction, the Ark Encounter resembled a theme park with a
zoo. The ark paralleled a long, enormous barge at sea. It was huge!
In addition to the ground level, the ark encompassed
three floors. There were spaces where Noah’s family lived, and the animals were
stored in baskets, cages, and other containers. The boat was built to the exact
specifications of the Bible, and the nautical operations of the boat were also
thoroughly explained. It seemed like there were millions of available details
and information tidbits in the museum. So, one day alone does not suffice to fully
appreciate the craftsmanship and history of the ark, even if exploring the ship
for five to six hours. Annabelle and Jace lasted about four hours, which I was
pleasantly surprised to see. Annabelle wanted to stop and stare at every scene,
statue, and fake animal in the museum. The exhibits included information about
Noah’s life, a blacksmith shop, animal care, the animal species carried in the
boat, dinosaurs, and educational films in multiple theaters. The ark's size and
the volume of included knowledge about this historical event were overwhelming,
to say the least.
While skipping our usual lunch time, our ark museum
adventure made us hungry. We ventured to a southwestern-themed outdoor
restaurant. It was a cooler day without extreme heat because of the fall
weather. I had chicken tacos, despite just having fish tacos the previous
evening at the Fort Mitchell Public House. Lisa ordered a burrito bowl with
rice, black beans, cheese, vegetables, and chicken. Annabelle and Jace also ate
tacos. There were plenty of places to get food in the park, especially since
our visit turned into a full-day excursion. Annabelle loves animals. So, we
visited the zoo before leaving the grounds. The zoo had several types of
animals, including birds, lemurs, reptiles, kangaroos, a petting zoo, and
several other creatures.
For a simple yet tasty dinner, we ate at Chick-fil-A
before returning to the Airbnb. While we do not eat at Chick-fil-A often, our
kids really like their food. We quickly gave the kids baths and put them to bed
after the long day of festivities.
On Sunday, I really wanted to venture into downtown
Cincinnati, so we could take in some of the local sites on the other side of
the state line between northern Kentucky and Ohio. We rested in the early
morning and left our Airbnb around lunchtime to eat at The Findley Market,
which resembled The Quincy Market in Boston, Massachusetts. Like the structure
of an open-air narrow warehouse, Findley contained a food marketplace with
cuisine vendors from all over the world. Chefs made these meals fresh on the
spot for those looking for an affordable meal with a delectable taste. Like a
food court, the advantage is that anyone can find an interesting delicacy one
might savor. The market is filled with businesses and chefs taking orders from
hundreds of people, all there for the same purpose to enjoy the local flavors.
There were a few open tables to sit down and eat. I got the impression many
people arrived to order food on the go. There was live music outside, and there
were several local shops to buy souvenirs. There were also some artists with
outdoor tents. Lisa and I finally found a table for all four of us to sit down
outside. I ate an Italian sub. The kids had deluxe grilled cheese sandwiches.
Lisa ate some grilled lemon pepper chicken with fried rice and vegetables. All
the food choices were excellent!
After spoiling our taste buds at the Findlay Market,
we walked over to the Rhinegeist Brewery to drink some local brews (gluten-free
cider for Lisa) and socialize with more Cincy locals. Rhinegeist inhabited an
entire city block in a building that was over one hundred years old. Similar to
the interior of an old factory, the brewery's interior was larger than a
football field with a rooftop bar. Of course, there were cornhole boards,
indoor swings, and other family festive activities. We stayed at the brewery
for a couple of hours, and the kids loved playing indoors, like an outdoor
playground. It was lightly sprinkling rain outside. So, Lisa and I ventured
into Deeper Roots Coffee Shop until we could walk back to the parking garage. I
did not drink any coffee. Lisa drank the barista’s seasonal version of a
Pumpkin Spice Latte. The coffee shop provided a chill place to relax until the
sprinkles subsided to go back to the car.
To visit the Findlay Market and the Rhinegeist
Brewery, Lisa and I parked at Washington Park in central downtown Cincinnati.
We brisked quickly through the park. It was another spacious outdoor green
space with unique visuals and walkways that added to the memorable décor and
scenery of the city.
We ventured next to Smale Riverfront Park, which had
unique playground features. Annabelle loves slides, and several slides were
etched into small hills within the park, rather than having a traditional
playground that includes handmade structures with slides. Smale Park bordered
the Ohio River with an impressive view of the John A. Roebling Suspension
Bridge. Paycor Stadium, home of the Cincinnati Bengals, and the Great American
Ball Park, home of the Cincinnati Reds, were within close walking distance of the
popular green space. There was a rope bridge, several metal musical
instruments, a walk-on keyboard, an Oinkithopter (a flying pig that kids climb
on and into), and several streams and water play areas for kids.
It was quickly getting dark outside. So, we spent less
time in Smale Park than we had initially hoped for. I promised Annabelle we
would come back first thing the next morning. We were surprisingly hungry again,
quicker than usual. We wandered into a restaurant called The Yard House. It was
an upscale sports bar that just so happened to welcome families with young
children. I ate chicken nachos, and Lisa ate ahi tuna with asparagus on the
side. We ordered Annabelle some chicken fingers. Typically, Jace eats off our
plates, and we share with him, even though he has a considerable appetite to
consume his own food now. The food and the service at The Yard House were exceptional!
We stumbled upon this restaurant by accident mainly because it was close to
Smale Park and within walking distance.
As promised, we took Annabelle back to Smale Park the next
morning, walking approximately three miles on the sidewalk along the river.
Annabelle played for another hour in the park, mainly on the slides. It was
nice enjoying the park without being in a rush.
For budgetary reasons, we ate lunch at Taco Bell and
then proceeded to the Creation Museum. The Creation Museum was part of a
three-day combo ticket with The Ark Encounter. There were several exhibits at
the museum, including information about how Intelligent Design compares and
contrasts with evolution. I remember enjoying some of the displays and statues of
dinosaurs and the development of babies in a mother's womb. Much of the tour
involved more information about Noah's Ark, dragon legends, an insectarium, the
history of the Bible, and other creative exhibits. Like the Ark Encounter,
there was a smaller zoo and botanical gardens on the museum grounds. Again, I
enjoyed both the Creation Museum and the Ark Encounter. It was evident that the
responsible engineers and designers invested many resources in these tourist
destinations. If you visit these sites, the three-day pass is a logical choice,
given that it takes hours to tour these museums and truly enjoy them. Set aside
at least one day for the Ark Encounter and at least one additional day for the
Creation Museum.
We ate dinner after the Creation Museum at The Hebron
Grill, another locally owned restaurant. Surprisingly, our kids were terrific
in all the restaurants we attended. I was proud of their well-behaved demeanor
in these public places. I ordered the southern fried chicken parm, and Lisa
ordered a salad with salmon. Annabelle had pasta with marinara sauce, and Jace
shared all of our dishes once again. I was impressed with the restaurant
selections in northern Kentucky and Cincinnati. We ate very well and enjoyed
our many meals together as a family.
We returned to our Airbnb in the early evening, where
we watched the movie, Kung Fu Panda, with the kids. Our sweet and short
time away was coming to a close since we had to head back home the following
day, Tuesday. Even one month after taking this trip, Lisa and I are still talking
about how much fun we had with the kids on this trip, spending time together as
a family. As parents, we have decided to intentionally stop and savor every precious
moment with our children. As life moves forward in time, each passing moment is
a fleeting gift that warrants appreciation to the fullest extent.
Browse our favorite photo moments from our memorable trip below.
(You can imagine the vast size of the Rhinegeist Brewery with this picture.)
(Annabelle and Jace enjoy watching the animals in the zoo at the Ark Encounter.)
(Jace smiles while petting goats in the zoo at the Ark Encounter.)
(Annabelle slides down the hills at Smale Park several times.)
(John A. Roebling Suspension Bridge sets the scene over the Ohio River, viewing from the Cincinnati side.)
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Thursday, October 12, 2023
A Refresher – Recognizing Opportune Moments and Seizing Them!
(Paul Walker was known
for his cinematic presence and relationship with the actor, Vin Diesel, in the Fast
& Furious franchise movies.)
This blog entry is
based on a famous quote by Paul Ryan while also mentioning his legacy contributions
through cinematic achievements and charitable outreach. This blog message might
be a potent reminder of how blessed your life is as it is.
Paul Walker was an American actor born in Glendale, California, on September 12, 1973. He tragically passed away in a car accident on November 30, 2013, in Santa Clarita, California. He is best known for his role as Brian O'Conner in the Fast & Furious film franchise, which became a global sensation and defined his career.
Walker's charismatic
performances and on-screen chemistry with the cast, particularly with Vin
Diesel, contributed significantly to the success of the Fast & Furious series.
His dedication to realism and involvement in daring car stunts earned him
respect in both the film and automotive industries.
In addition to his
acting career, Paul Walker was involved in philanthropic work through his
organization, Reach Out Worldwide, providing disaster relief. His untimely
passing profoundly impacted his fans worldwide, and the franchise had to
navigate how to continue without his presence. Nevertheless, his legacy
endures, celebrated not only for his acting but also for his passion for cars
and his charitable endeavors. One of his famous quotes about life states,“Somebody
is in the hospital right now, begging God for the opportunity you have. Don't
you dare go to bed depressed! Count your blessings and shake it off!”
Some Biblical truths
relate to this defining mantra that Walker lived by. The two following Bible
passages come to mind. I will further explain their significance to the excerpt
from Walker in this text.
“Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. And pray for us, too, that God may open a door for our message, so that we may proclaim the mystery of Christ, for which I am in chains. Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should. Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity.” -Colossians 4:2-5 (NIV)
“A cheerful heart is great medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.” - Proverbs 17:22 (NIV)
Life is full of substantial and meager moments that
shape our journey. We encounter opportunities daily, and it's up to us to seize
them. But sometimes, in the hustle and bustle of life or during adverse times,
we forget just how precious these moments are. With these inspirational
concepts fresh on my mind, I seek to explore the powerful message of seizing
the moment, making the most of every possibility, and being grateful for the
opportunities God gives us in life, inspired by this famous quote from Paul
Walker and these meaningful Bible verses.
These words, quoted by Paul Walker, remind us of the
value of the present moment and the vitality of being grateful for what we have
in the present day. Walker cautions, "Don't you dare go to bed
depressed" because "Someone is in the hospital right now, begging God
for the opportunity you have."
Similarly, the Bible also offers guidance and wisdom
on these life lessons. Colossians 4:2-5 (NIV) encourages us to devote ourselves
to prayer, being watchful and thankful. It reminds us that worship can open doors
for us to share the message of Christ and that we should make the most of every
chance to share these motivational messages. This verse emphasizes the
significance of being alert to the opportunities God presents us and being grateful
that these abundant blessings arise, often for our own betterment as
individuals.
Additionally, Proverbs 17:22 (NIV) tells us, "A
cheerful heart is great medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the
bones." This verse underscores the connection between our emotional
well-being and our ability to embrace life's noteworthy occasions. When we
maintain a cheerful heart and a positive outlook, we are better equipped to
seize the endless possibilities that come our way. For instance, I might be
busier than I want to be with several jobs, a doctoral program, and family
responsibilities. However, I get the daily opportunity to be engaged with these
present priorities that other individuals might crave and wish they had,
looking in from an outside perspective.
So, how can we magnify and apply these
principles in our lives?
1.) Prayerful
Living: Begin each day with prayer, expressing gratitude for
the opportunities and blessings in your life. Seek God's guidance and wisdom in
recognizing and making the most of current circumstances.
2.) Positive
Perspective: Cultivate a positive outlook. Even in
challenging times, focus on the good things in your life and the benefits that
await you. A cheerful heart can be a source of strength.
3.) Embrace
Every Opportune Moment: Don't let fear or doubt hold you
back. Whether it's a chance to help others, pursue your passions, or share your
faith, seize the day (or night) and make the most of it.
4.) Express
Gratitude: Regularly reflect on and appreciate the favorable
outcomes you've already had. Gratitude has the power to transform your
perspective and enhance your well-being.
At the end of the journey, life is a series of
moments, and each of these junctures presents potential for personal and
professional growth. As Paul Walker's quote suggests, someone is praying for
the blessings we often take for granted somewhere in a hospital. Let's commit
to being watchful, content, and wise in our actions, just as Colossians 4:2-5
advises. By doing so, we can live with purpose, embrace each moment, and be
grateful for the endless possibilities life creates in our path. Remember, a
cheerful heart is not only great medicine for the soul but also a key to making
the most of life's many adventures and destinations. For me, many of these
adventures and destinations involve fatherhood, with Annabelle and Jace as my
two biggest fans.
The following pictures illustrate my present-day
blessings. I am a family man and love every moment of it!
(Lisa and I do not get to see Allison, my sister, as
much as we would like. However, she made the trip to Knoxville for this special
occasion.)
Wednesday, August 30, 2023
Martha’s Vineyard Is Unexpectedly Memorable!
(Me on South Beach, Martha’s Vineyard)
I had the distinct pleasure of visiting Martha’s
Vineyard (MV), Massachusetts, this summer in July. With preconceived notions, I
expected to see fancy cars and rude, rich people everywhere. However, I
experienced the exact opposite. The blue-collar workers and business owners presented
pleasant encounters with normal people (not rich vagabonds) – kind folks trying
to succeed in a place of paradise. I will elaborate on these cordial meetings
throughout this blog entry.
Politicians have given MV a stench where even the
original residents have grown tired of their visits by reputation. The notoriety
of the island’s name created a pop culture trend for celebrity tourists that
caused prices and living costs to rise. Locals are irritated by the fame and
attention of a select few individuals who broadcast that they live at MV. On
the other hand, the generational residents and seasonal workers warmly welcome sincere
personalities and unpretentious visitors.
I often wondered why Martha’s Vineyard is called
Martha’s Vineyard. MV is historically associated with the English explorer,
Bartholomew Gosnold. Gosnold named the island in honor of his daughter, whose
name was either Martha or Mary. The term “Vineyard" is thought to have
been used because of the abundant wild grapes on the island. Gosnold was an
early English explorer who visited the island in 1602. He established one of
the first English settlements in North America on MV, although this dwelling
was short-lived.
Before European settlers arrived, MV was inhabited by
the Wampanoag people, a Native American tribe. The Wampanoag relied on fishing,
hunting, farming, and gathering as their primary sustenance. During the 18th
and 19th centuries, MV became a prominent center for the whaling industry. The
island's location was an ideal base for whaling vessels. The profits from
whaling contributed to the island's growth, reputation, and prosperity.
On the day of my adventure, I drove from Boston to
Falmouth, where the ferry then took me to MV. We landed in the small town of
Oaks Bluff. It is a beautiful coastal town with the whispers of ocean air,
tasteful cuisine, local coffee shops, several green spaces, and New England
colonial homes. I arrived on the island at about 10:00 a.m. ET. The original
ferry ride from Falmouth to Oaks Bluff lasted about 35-40 minutes. This ferry
ride only included people and bikes, no motorized vehicles. I met an older couple
named Barry and Bernice who also planned to visit the island for the day. They
were from New Hampshire. They brought a two-person bike to ride together. For
the long boat trip, they were wonderful company! They provided valuable
information about the Vineyard and tips on what sites to see. We mostly talked
about our families. They showed me pictures of the grandkids on their cell
phones. I showed them pictures of Lisa, Annabelle, and Jace on my phone. I
actually saw them throughout the day on different parts of the island,
sometimes passing each other on our bikes.
I rented an electric bike from All-Star Martha’s
Vineyard Bike Rentals. Robert, the owner and manager of this business, outlined
my entire day of where to go and what to see with the local island sites. Before
my self-tour began, I walked across the street from All-Star Bike Rentals to
discover Vineyard's Best Ice Cream and Coffee Company. While not advertised,
this business served freshly made bagels. For five dollars (a reasonable price
for MV vendors), I bought three bagels to fuel my day. Those bagels sustained
me throughout the day under a brutal July summer sun. I had not originally
planned to bike the 37 miles I covered in this one day.
I started riding down Seaview Avenue alongside
Alley-Waban Park and Inkwell Beach. Alley-Waban Park was a large open field
park with several sidewalks with people walking dogs and enjoying the
sunshine-filled day. The previously described colonial homes surrounded the
park. Many of these residences had balconies with ocean views on the second or
third floor.
From Oaks Bluff, Robert directed me toward Edgartown.
This road hugged the seashore with breathtaking coastal vistas. The ride along
these beaches and waves felt refreshing. I am about to begin my fourth and
final year of a Ph.D. program in Communication. While very enjoyable, the
workload in a doctoral program can sometimes be intensive and all-consuming.
The gust of ocean air melted these workload worries away. There was an
enchanting essence to this island. It became evident within my first few miles
of riding why so many people from all over the world ventured to visit this
paradise. The bike ride on this coastal road from Oak Bluffs to Edgartown was
six miles to begin a long day’s journey.
MV is extremely accessible by bike. In fact, by mid-afternoon,
the traffic is bad enough that bikes move faster than cars sitting in traffic,
depending on where you are on the island. About halfway to Edgartown on Seaview
Avenue, I rode across a short bridge titled the American Legion Memorial Bridge.
Locally, this bridge is also known as the Jaws Bridge. Many scenes in the first
movie of this series were filmed at MV.
Many young adults and even parents with kids were
jumping off this bridge into a canal that linked marsh and open ocean waters.
The jump into the water below was probably about 12-13 feet high, and several
individuals leaped without hesitation, sometimes several times. I admired the
youthful energy of these daredevils. However, I decided ultimately to stay dry.
I prefer to avoid testing the strong ocean currents. In local newspapers, concerning
Jaws Bridge, I read that one person died in 2023 after jumping off the bridge.
Two others experienced the same fate in 2022. I doubt these eager divers
researched these facts before their stunts. On the bridge, a warning sign
cautions people not to jump off the bridge since the activity is considered illegal.
I heeded this advice closely. I took some photos of these valiant jumpers and
continued my bike journey.
After the six-mile stretch on Seaview Avenue, I
arrived in Edgartown. First, I visited the Edgartown Harbor Lighthouse. As
mentioned in previous blog entries, I am fascinated by lighthouses. Lighthouses
offer photogenic portraits amidst beautiful beaches and landscapes. The
lighthouse was shorter than some of the other lighthouses I visited in the past.
The building includes a museum and the opportunity to climb the stairs to the
top of the lighthouse. The views at the top were lovely. It was a nice place to
reflect on life, with a small beach on a peninsula surrounded by water. After appreciating
the moment and reciting some short prayers, I descended the lighthouse and
admired the marvelous features of the Harbor View Hotel. The hotel had a
wraparound porch with scenic views in all directions, including the lighthouse
across the street. The building resembles a house that might be considered a
mansion. The hotel reminds me of a place you might read about in a romance
novel. Like an interesting person, the hotel knows viewers admire its beauty,
almost like the hotel possesses a personality within itself.
Compared to my first ferry ride, I encountered a
second ferry that connected Edgartown and Chappaquiddick Island (CI). This
ferry was much smaller than my previous ride as a passenger from Falmouth. The
boat could hold three cars and ten people with two to three bicycles. The small
ferry ride intrigued me. So, I paid a small fee and walked my bike onto the
ferry. I was unfamiliar with MV, CI, or any of the surrounding islands in the
Cape Cod area. For the day in MV, I was on vacation to enjoy the scenery
without a defined schedule. I was exploring for the sole sake of exploring.
After reaching CI, I rode my bike from the ferry
another four miles to East Beach. Then, I had to ride another four miles to
ride the ferry back into Edgartown. It was evident that CI was the quieter side
of this paradise. One small convenience store and deli existed on CI with some
souvenirs and light groceries. I stopped at this local business to buy some
cold refreshments. I also encountered a Japanese Garden that was small but
quaint.
After getting off the ferry, I stepped into Old
Sculpin Gallery, an upscale store of splendid artwork. Many pieces of art were
available for purchase, including paintings, sculptures, and photography.
Honestly, I sought relief from the sun in an air-conditioned building. I was
soaked in sweat like I had just worked out at the gym. Of course, I had just
biked another eight miles across CI. However, two nicely dressed women greeted
me cordially, asking me where I was from and if I was enjoying the Vineyard. I
commented on the fantastic works of photography in the gallery. One of the two
girls inquired about my poetry and photography books. She asked me to write
down the titles of my books and published photos. This demeanor is generally
what I encountered in the Vineyard throughout the day. People were
exceptionally polite and genuinely wanted island visitors to enjoy their
experiences there.
In addition to discussing my poetry books, I conversed
with the art gallery sales clerk about local bookstores with regional authors,
including some that might have lived at MV during the entire annual year or at
least during the warm season. For weather reasons, many local residents live at
the Vineyard during the warmer months of the year. Then they retreat to
southern regions of the United States during the harshest months of the winter.
The winter conditions at MV can be quite severe.
The sales clerk recommended Edgartown Books, a locally
owned business and independent bookstore. A coffee shop restaurant named Behind
the Bookstore literally sat in the back of Edgartown Books. You could walk
through the bookstore into a courtyard garden between the two businesses.
Several people sat at tables in the courtyard, eating food and drinking their
lattes from the coffee shop. It was a charming setup! I bought two books by
authors from MV who wrote about experiences at the Vineyard. I still felt somewhat
overheated from the sun and the long-distance bike ride. I sat inside the coffee
shop for a good hour, drinking several glasses of water, a cold brew coffee, and
eating a peach muffin. I glimpsed through my two purchased local reads. Again,
like the art gallery, the coffee shop was air-conditioned! I really enjoyed the
local beach town feel of the bookstore and coffee shop. I quickly observed that
both tourists and permanent residents of the island enjoyed these two
businesses.
From Edgartown, I rode my bike to Katama and South
Beaches. Barry and Bernice advised that these beaches were the most scenic on
the island. I took their advice to heart and walked on South Beach to soak in
the splendid views. I rode past the Katama Farm, which encompassed many acres
of crops and other greenery. Again, I was surprised to observe these fields in
the middle of the island….a working farm with barns, silos, animals, and machinery.
It was getting later in the day, and I knew I had
about 12-13 miles to return to Oaks Bluff. Rather than taking Seaview Avenue
along the ocean beaches, I took roads on the interior of the island through the
Manuel F. Correllus State Forest. This route permitted me to see other parts of
the Vineyard that I had not witnessed earlier in the day. The interior marshes
and woods possessed their own natural wonders. While I knew I needed to head
back to Boston eventually, I would have enjoyed camping on the beach at MV to
truly soak in the moment and spiritual essence of this gorgeous place.
Perhaps I was more tired after baking in the sun and
riding several miles across the island to visit all the mentioned landmarks.
The last leg of my biking journey was very challenging! I was hungry and ready
to rest with a beer in my hand. I eventually returned to All-Star Bikes, where
Robert kept calling me "The Professor." Robert inquired about my
higher education teaching and research interests. I informed him that I was
close to finishing my Ph.D. in Communication. One of his summer seasonal
employees majored in Communication and asked me some questions about the discipline.
Robert and his staff provided an excellent example of positive customer service
experiences. Beyond the day’s adventure, they tried to know more about my life
beyond the surface-level small talk. All-Star Bikes employed workers with great
attitudes who genuinely wanted to serve visitors of the Vineyard.
I asked for Robert’s recommendation for a restaurant
where I could eat some of the best local cuisine. Robert directed me to Lookout
Tavern, just around the corner from his shop. He further recommended that I
order the lobster tacos. His insights proved to be delicious! This restaurant
has ocean views, located next to the water. I also ordered a couple of local
beers made by microbreweries on the island. After dinner, I quickly visited
some souvenir shops for last-minute purchases and gifts. On the return trip
with the ferry, I was blessed to enjoy the company of Barry and Bernice once
again. I had hoped to see them again. We conversed more about each other’s
families and sat on the upper deck of the ferry. Together we savored the sunset
over the island silhouette of the Vineyard in the background.
I arrived back at the docks in Falmouth at about 6:30
p.m. ET. I took the remainder of the day to drive around downtown Falmouth and
observe the early evening nightlife. I drove by Aquatic Brewing Company. I
decided to turn around and check out the inside of the microbrewery. Rather
than drinking full-size pints of beer, I tried a sampler order. These servings
allow a patron to try four to five beers with about six ounces in each glass.
You take time to enjoy the taste of each beer rather than only drinking beverages
for consumption reasons. I was impressed with the tastings. While enjoying the
atmosphere, I sat next to a group of young men who appeared to have just gotten
off work from a construction site. They wore construction clothes and told me
about their many carpentry projects on both residential and commercial
properties. It sounded like Falmouth and the surrounding Cape Cod towns were
growing faster than residences could be built. I appreciated the friendliness
of local conversations. I soon got back into my car and made my way back to
Boston, where I was staying at a close friend’s residence.
For several days to come, I knew I would feel the
positive vibes of the Vineyard long after my ferry returned to Falmouth. MV was
much larger in square mileage than I initially speculated. I am still
reminiscing how magnificent the Vineyard’s natural wonders were. While maybe a
pop culture fad to visit, Martha's Vineyard greatly exceeded my expectations!
It was clear why so many people visited the island every year and paid the
absorbent prices to stay there overnight. Like a Taylor Swift Eras concert, the
experience of island adventures might be worth the abhorrent prices to marvel
at the Vineyard’s vastness and majestic grandeur.
(Despite the warnings, people still jump off Jaw’s
Bridge.)